Ada Choi is praised for her realism when it comes to the topic of remarriage after a spouse's death.

On a show, Ada Choi revealed that every time before she takes a flight, she'll always tell her husband Zhang Jin, "Husband, I'm going to take a flight. If anything should happen to me, you have to protect well our two daughters! If you want to remarry, there's no problem with that. You have to find a woman who will treat them well!" 

Christy Chung and the other guests told her, "That doesn't necessarily have to happen. He loves you so much, he won't be able to find another."

Ada Choi responded: "Forget about it, be a bit more realistic!" 

Comments:

1. Ulanara [T/N: reference to her iconic role in hit drama Empresses in the Palace], you're so clear-headed. [+56583]

2. Real life is not a novel. [+26422]

Response: If you look at the Lin Shengbin case, you'll know. [+5002]

3. To be alive is one thing; to die is another thing. Ada Choi is very clear-headed.  [+19385]

4. If you look at Lin Shengbin, you'll know. Although he sold a pitiful act on Weibo, but he found a new lover in a year, and he received a huge amount of compensation, but he wasn't willing to share the money with the parents of his deceased wife. [+18114]

Response: There are people who say that after all, those three were his biological children. Don't forget--he only ejaculated three times. It was his deceased wife who was pregnant three times for ten months each. The one who suffered from childbirth was also her. He didn't have to suffer.  [+9371]

5. It's true that women who are realistic are more likely to receive happiness...[+8958]

6. I hope that all girls can be so clear-headed, do not let love carry you away and make you dizzy [+8196]

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